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You Can't Make This Stuff Up.
Why the stories we never planned become the ones we never forget. When I was growing up, my grandparents had a handful of stories they told over and over again. We all knew them by heart. We knew when to laugh, when to shake our heads, and how every story ended. It didn't matter. We still wanted to hear them. At the time, I remember wondering why they kept telling the same stories. Now I understand. They weren't just remembering the past. They were preserving pieces of our fa

Erin Slutsky
4 days ago4 min read


The Test Results Weren't the Hard Part. What Came Next Was.
I can stop treating my diagnosis like
a prediction of my future.

Erin Slutsky
Jul 114 min read


We Told Women to Be More Resilient. It Backfired.
“Everyone always says the same thing. I need better boundaries. I need more self-care. I need to build more emotional capacity.” But they were wrong.

Erin Slutsky
Jun 235 min read


What My Dad Taught Me About Leadership
In second grade, I wanted nothing more than to play soccer. I could already see it: racing down the field, scoring goals, and celebrating with my teammates. Soccer wasn't just a sport to me; it was something I had been looking forward to all year. Then everything changed. At our first team meeting, we got unexpected news: we didn't have a coach. No coach meant no team. No team meant no season. Just like that, the thing I had been dreaming about disappeared. As the adults stoo

Erin Slutsky
Jun 212 min read


Do You Need to Leave the Country to Take Care of Yourself and Reset?
"I didn't realize how exhausted I was
until I finally stopped."

Erin Slutsky
Jun 73 min read


Broken Patterns: A Reflection from the Menopause Escape Room
A woman stood in front of me holding a marker in one hand and a thin rebreakable karate board in the other. The room around us was loud in the best way. Women were laughing, talking, moving between stations about hormones, pelvic floor therapy, nutrition, mindset, relationships, and stress. The energy felt hopeful. Curious. Alive. But she looked completely still. She stared at the board for a long moment before finally writing four words across the front: “My mind won’t shut

Erin Slutsky
May 203 min read


You’re Not Having a Midlife Crisis, You’re Waking Up
Do you want to keep living the life you were told to live, or will you design a life you choose?

Erin Slutsky
Apr 283 min read


No one's really got it figured out just yet.
What if the problem is not the contradiction, but the way we have been taught to frame it?

Erin Slutsky
Apr 142 min read


A Guide Through The Fog: Navigating Perimenopause Using the Enneagram
And then it clicked: what if my Enneagram type could guide me through perimenopause?

Erin Slutsky
Mar 313 min read


Enough: Boundaries That Stick
I want to share a client story with you, because you might see yourself in it. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re just “stressed”… or if you’ve simply been tolerating too much , this one may feel familiar. "Angela" didn’t explode. That’s what surprised her most. Sitting in her car after work, hands still on the steering wheel, she stared straight ahead while the office lights flicked off behind her one by one. Her boss had just “asked” her to take on one more project. At

Erin Slutsky
Feb 235 min read


Your Menopause, Your Terms: Finding the Treatment You Deserve
Don't assume the doctor who delivered your baby 20 years ago is up to date on the latest in Menopause care. Follow these steps to find the best practitioner who is most up-to-date and has the time to listen.

Erin Slutsky
Feb 102 min read


The Day My House Got Quieter (and My Heart Got Louder)
As parents, we talk a lot about what we give our children.
But if we’re paying attention, there’s always a quieter story running underneath: What they give us.

Erin Slutsky
Jan 202 min read


How Being “Good” Kept Me From Being Honest
When I was a little girl, my mother’s spice cabinet was nothing short of magical. She had everything : cinnamon, garlic, thyme, each jar holding the promise of something warm, comforting, and delicious. My mom was a great cook, the kind who could turn leftovers into a feast with just the right combination of “secret ingredients.” But there was one spice I dreaded. Dry mustard. It didn’t come in a pretty glass jar like the others. It lived in a yellow tin, and for reasons I co

Erin Slutsky
Dec 17, 20254 min read


Breaking Free from “Good Girl” Rules in Midlife
Together, we will explore how the seven deadly sins and patriarchal expectations have shaped our lives.

Erin Slutsky
Dec 12, 20252 min read


All I Want for the Holidays Is a Little Sanity
This holiday season, protect your peace and celebrate on your terms.

Erin Slutsky
Nov 6, 20252 min read


How Anxiety Shows Up in Each Enneagram Type (and How to Use Your GPS to Navigate)
Anxiety doesn’t look the same for everyone. Some women freeze. Others over-function. Some try to control everything around them. By...

Erin Slutsky
Oct 2, 20254 min read


When You’re Everywhere but Nowhere: A Lesson from Jen’s Story
being present is key.

Erin Slutsky
Sep 10, 20252 min read


The House That Built Us: What a Visit to Our Old Home Taught Me About Self-Care
Years ago, my husband and I stood on a patch of dirt and imagined our future. We chose the white siding and the green shutters. We picked...

Erin Slutsky
May 3, 20252 min read


We Invited Someone New Into Our Marriage: And It Has Changed Everything
For the first 33 years of our marriage, my husband and I did what most couples do. We loved each other, raised a family, juggled work and...

Erin Slutsky
Apr 21, 20252 min read


From People-Pleasing to Power Moves
How One Woman Stopped Settling and Started Asking for More When I first met Rachel, she described herself as “the peacekeeper.” At 42,...

Erin Slutsky
Apr 15, 20252 min read
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